Mean talking

This is one of the hardest concepts for people(mainly women) to get. Let me give you an example of what I mean.

Her: I won the lottery.

Me: Congratulations. But the lottery is an idiot tax.

Her: What? But I WON!

Do you see the self-centeredness here? You may have won the lottery, but virtually everybody else took an "L". Here's another example: You may have been raised by a single mother and turned out fine, but what about everybody else? Not sure? I invite you to visit your local correctional facility or predominantly Black public school. The astute among you might notice that I didn't tell you which one to visit to help you arrive at my conclusion.

📢JUST PICK ONE AND START TALKING TO PEOPLE!

Now here is what will happen. Someone will visit some high performing, blue ribbon school on the Southside of her sh!tty city and report that it was very nice.

Uh oh…

I guess there's nothing to do because of that school, right? Oh wait..

📢WHAT ABOUT EVERYBODY ELSE WHO VISITED SCHOOLS AND PRISONS?!

If you were to take all those observations and collect them in a book, how would it read? Oh, you don't know because...

📢YOU AND YOUR BASTARD CHILDREN CAN'T READ A WHOLE BOOK UNLESS THERE ARE PICTURES IN IT!

Are you starting to grasp the problem yet?

Since so many women in this country are Christian, let me ask a question:

How many innocent people would you be willing to sentence to Hell if it meant you or someone you love deeply would get into heaven?

Are you finally starting to see past yourself?

When I say averages, not individuals, I'm moving beyond your personal experience to include that of others. I am asking, "What is the expected value of the game you are playing?"Oh, so you have two kids by 2 different men with no job. What's the likelihood of producing a winner in life versus a loser. It's like the lotto all over again. I mean, you can't win if you don't play, right? And now you understand why I say what I say about all the stupid sh!t you do. It's about what happens on average if enough people play or people play long enough, not about what happens in one particular match.